Updated on June 29th, 2020
“Are you wanting to travel alone for the first time? Then look now further! Here are 21 amazing ideas for your first solo trip as a woman. Includes learning a skill, volunteering, yoga & fitness retreats & loads more to choose from.”
Anywhere…within reason. Of course once the global travel bans & quarantines allow it again. I believe the world is our oyster & provides many opportunities for us to see & do whatever we dream of over the last few months in particular. I understand that for many, once the world opens up again, looking for something more organised may be your preference. There are loads of choices here, along with plenty more if you would like to be more independent.
With much of the world inaccessible currently, now is the perfect time to start preparing for your next trip. We all need something to look forward to right now. Planning a solo trip for the first time can be an incredibly daunting prospect. Many women are scared to travel alone & understandably when you hear some of the stories which are told by the media.
I was lucky. I spent many years exploring the world on my own in my 20’s. After tragically losing my husband in 2014, I suddenly found myself alone again. I used the experience as a way to discover who I was, alone for the first time again in my 40’s. As a result, I have confidence that the world is not as scary as some people would have you believe. If you would like more information, then check out my guide on Travel for Singles Over 40 or Subscribe to get my FREE ebook containing everything you need to know.
But what if you are not comfortable to take the plunge & head off by yourself? Don’t panic! Here I can provide you with 21 solo travelling ideas.
Travel Alone For The First Time – 21 Amazing Trip Ideas For Women
Travelling alone does not need to mean being lonely. Far from it! Here, I share some of my experience & research to ease you into your first solo trip.
Learning a Skill
A great option for first-time solo travel is to try & combine it with a course & learn something at the same time. Here are a few ideas:
I have so far spent 2 weeks living with a local family in Havana & a week in a school in the Dominican Republic (DR) to pursue my desire to learn Spanish. I loved both experiences, my language skills improved beyond recognition & I made a lot of great friends in the process. It also enabled me to have a better understanding of the country I was visiting. After each course, I then had confidence go it alone & explore solo. I organised my courses through Apple Languages & they were excellent.
On both of my language escapades, I combined my learning with dance lessons. It’s a great way to immerse yourself in the culture & make friends in the process. In Cuba, I learnt salsa & in DR added merengue & bachata to my repertoire.
“I was rubbish at all of them but had great fun discovering it! There is nothing like learning from the people who invented it. What about Tango in Argentina? Samba in Brazil? Flamenco in Seville? Or African Dance?”
Many countries around the world are famed for their cuisine. I have taken a one day course in Thailand in the past but why not consider a multi-day school to really improve your skills? All you need to do is pick a cuisine & do a bit of research.
4. Scuba Diving
I have now taken my PADI Open Water course twice in Australia. The first time I was in my 20’s, then revisited it again 20 years later (as my experience had been so limited). Most locations that are good for diving will provide courses with certification. The course for me was 5 days long, including 2 days in the classroom & 3 out on the Great Barrier Reef. Here I completed the course & got to enjoy some fun dives without instruction. If you love it, you can usually tag on an Advanced Diving Course to take your skills to the next level.
I have always loved being on the water & felt the next step was to actually learn the skills required to take this further. I was recommended the RYA as the most well-recognised qualification to have. There are a number of places around the world who offer courses. I completed my Competent Crew course in the UK over a week on the water. However, there is lots of scope to take the course over weekends & go to warmer climes should you wish. I have broadened my experience since, sailing in Chicago, on an ocean crossing from Florida to The Bahamas & around the Caribbean.
Photography lends itself perfectly to travel. Many companies now offer the opportunity to travel & develop your skills at photographing what you see along the way. This is now high on my list of trips for the next 12 months.
7. Painting & Art
If you have a penchant for art, then why not seek out like-minded individuals & learn your craft at the same time. Check out Responsible Travel as one example.
A volunteer holiday is an opportunity to give back in a meaningful, sustainable way while exploring the world on holiday. There are numerous organisations which can help you to hook up with a volunteering placement but bear in mind that most will cost money to participate. There are a number of organisations who specialise in volunteering overseas.
8. Wildlife or Marine Conservation
In Nov 2017, I spent 2 weeks volunteering at a wildlife sanctuary in Namibia. It was a unique experience where I was given the opportunity to get up close & personal with semi-wild animals. If you are an animal lover, then I would wholeheartedly recommend the experience. I organised my time in Namibia through The Great Projects.
I was groomed by baboons, caught them as they jumped into my arms from a tree & walked while they wrestled over who was sitting on my shoulders. I was also bitten by a meerkat…but that’s a whole other story!
9. Using Your Skills To Volunteer
Are you a teacher? Nurse? Maybe have experience in administrative or construction work? Why not consider using your holiday to share your talents & passion to give communities a better & brighter future in the process?
If you are keen to really get your hands dirty, then why not consider construction or other more similar volunteer opportunities?
During the summer in 2016, I was keen to attend a number of music festivals in the UK but lacking a friend who had the time or inclination to join me. Instead, I volunteered to become a steward with Oxfam & had an amazing time working & listening to some fantastic music in the process.
Go on a Tour
11. Multi-Day/Week Tours
If you want to see the highlights of a country but have limited time, then extended tours are recommended. I have so far explored Bolivia with Intrepid Travel & Costa Rica, the Galápagos Islands & Peru with G Adventures. I’d recommend both organisations for a great experience with local guides & a focus on ethical & sustainable travel.
12. Day Tours
If spending weeks with the same people or constantly moving on isn’t your thing then consider finding yourself a main base & peppering time alone with tours of 1 or 2 days. When in urban areas I love to join the free walking tours which are available in most cities across the world. They usually last 3 hours & are a great way to orientate yourself to the new environment & gain a better understanding of the culture, as well as meet likeminded individuals.
Getting in tune with your mind, body & spirit is one of the best things to do while travelling alone through attending a retreat.
If you are looking to get fitter & enjoy a holiday at the same time, fitness retreats are the perfect option for your first-time solo travel experience. This kind of holiday, in particular, seems to appeal to females & is often the go-to option for women holidaying solo.
14. Yoga Retreats
If you want less pain & to get more in tune with your body in beautiful locations across the world then it’s hard to beat a yoga retreat. By their very nature, these are located in some of the most relaxing & idyllic destinations across the world. Don’t think they always have to include depriving yourself of life’s pleasures either. My retreats in Cuba have included mojito classes, salsa lessons & nights out.
Find your “Tribe”
If you have an interest in anything then I am sure you can find like-minded individuals anywhere in the world. If you feel ready to indulge in a solo trip but are worried that you may find it lonely, then head for a passionate community & you will always have common ground to start a conversation.
15. Hiking & Walking
If you are a keen walker or just want to explore an area on foot then all you need to do is aim for an area where people congregate to do the same.
“The walking community in my experience is always friendly & welcoming. Everyone always likes to know where you have explored & happy to share their tips on where to go.”
If hiking alone is a concern, then that’s totally understandable. If you do want to try it then I advise you to only stick to busier tracks. For loads of tips & stories from my experiences then check out some of my posts on hiking solo, particularly the Quilotoa Loop in Ecuador. You could also join a walking group for a guided walk. I did this in Bulgaria & it was a fantastic day.
If you enjoy sailing, don’t suffer from seasickness & are looking for a fun community, look no further. I have had some amazing experiences even though I would definitely not class myself as a sailor! Ideally, take a few lessons & head to a sailing club or the marina to admire boats & make friends. Regattas are a great place to start as the bigger yachts will often need extra ‘hands’ or ‘weight’. The serious contenders will have a well-honed team but there will also be many who are doing it for fun & welcome sailors with any experience.
Do you scuba dive? Maybe you want to learn? Or perhaps just keen to snorkel? If your answer to any of these questions is yes, then why not head to a destination which is renowned for its marine life? Again, like-minded individuals like to hang out together to share wild their stories, best sightings & top tips.
18. Go On A Cruise
I’ll be honest. Personally, I would rather stick pins in my eyes than go on a cruise! And that is before the whole pandemic experience highlighted the issues. It represents everything I don’t like about travel in the 21st Century. However, I do recognise that for some women it is a convenient option to go solo. On a cruise ship you have plenty of companions, can see a number of different destinations & have easy access to food, drink & entertainment. The challenge is that by their very nature, cruises are set up for a minimum of 2 people so could end up being a more expensive option for singles.
19. Work Abroad
If you have time to extend your trip, then a great way of really getting to know a place is to live & work there. Many people I know have taken months at a time teaching English as a foreign language, TEFL. If you are older, then getting a general working visa for any country can be more of a challenge. However, with qualifications like TEFL, you can secure a job before you travel & they will apply for a visa on your behalf. All this makes the process much easier.
20. Ease Yourself into Solo Travel
If you are keen on taking on any of these suggestions but don’t feel you are quite ready, then don’t be put off. Why not book a few days in a destination before or after a tour, or course, or cruise to take some time on your own & see how you get on? If you do it at the end you will be more confident in the cultural aspects & therefore chances are more relaxed about going solo. Alternatively, why not stay close to home & go away alone for a weekend or a week to see how you enjoy the experience?
21. Solo travel breeds solo travellers – Just Do It!
There’s no substitute or any reason to be scared of taking the plunge & just going it alone. Some of my most memorable travel experiences were when I’ve been solo. I always tend to talk to more people, learn more things & generally interact more.
“In my opinion, the joy of travel is not where you go but the experiences you have & the people you meet along the way. Some of them are transient, some of them stick with you for a long time after you’ve parted.”
Once you do go solo, some people you meet are looking for partners to travel with in the future. Over the last year, I have climbed Mount Kilimanjaro & taken a road trip in the USA. Both trips have been with friends I have made on separate yoga retreats & weirdly both in Cuba.
If you are in a situation where you are looking to travel solo but just nervous about taking the plunge, I hope I have given you plenty of ideas for some fantastic trips to take alone. There is lots more to come on all of these options so please watch this space over the coming months.
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