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Sue Cockell

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When is this going to stop?

Updated on January 26th, 2023Whistler Blackcomb, Canada – Jan 2015 Contrary to what you may think the title suggests, this is not a “woe is me” post about my situation, but the comment made by my cleaner when I told her before […]

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First Christmas

Updated on December 6th, 2022First Christmas?……Second Christmas? Christmas 1998 Despite passing the year anniversary of losing Terry it still felt like the first Christmas to me, and again I put on my best performance & survived. It’s weird how your […]

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The send off

Updated on December 6th, 2022Drumming with The Tuesday Club, 2014 One year ago today (2014) we had our send-off for Terry. How do you even start to prepare for saying goodbye to the love of your life? In my experience, […]

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One year on….

Updated on December 6th, 2022Whitsunday Islands, Australia – Dec 2015 I made it through the 1 year anniversary on 16th December. I didn’t melt, I didn’t spontaneously combust & I didn’t collapse. I was with my friend Vikky, in Australia, […]

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Operation cancelled…Again

Updated on December 6th, 2022Las Vegas, Jul 2011 On December 8th 2014 we were due to go in for Terry’s operation – open-heart surgery. This had already been postponed once due to one of the surgeons being unavailable. When this […]

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Operations cancelled…We’re going to Dubai

Updated on December 6th, 2022Dubai, Dec 2014 I’ve been receiving reminders on Facebook this week about memories from last year.  Terry’s operation (open heart surgery) was originally planned for 2nd December.  About 2 weeks beforehand we were told that one of […]

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Why this? Why now?

Updated on December 6th, 2022Kos, Greece 2010 I can’t believe it’s been over 11 months since I lost Terry.  I think that’s why I wanted to create this blog.  I have been through so much, mainly in the privacy of […]

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