Travel is one of the most powerful ways to rediscover yourself, especially in midlife. Whether you’re embracing solo adventures for the first time or seeking deeper, more meaningful experiences, the way you travel can shape your journey. One of the biggest questions you might face is: Should you join a group tour or plan an independent adventure?
The right choice depends on your personality, comfort level, and what you hope to gain from your travels. So, this week, I thought we would explore the pros and cons of group tours, and the best alternatives if you crave more independence.
If you are still undecided after reading all this, then check out my full blog post HERE.
The Benefits of a Group Tour
Group tours can be a fantastic option, particularly if you’re new to solo travel or visiting a destination that feels intimidating. Here’s why they might work for you:
- Ease and Convenience: Everything is planned, from accommodation to transport, meaning you can simply enjoy the experience without stress.
- Built-in Community: If you prefer company and the idea of meeting like-minded travellers appeals to you, a group setting can be a wonderful way to connect. I chose this for part of my trip to Costa Rica as I wanted company for activities such as canyoning, white water rafting and ziplining. I thought it would be more fun to do with friends I made along the way.
- Expert Guidance: Having a knowledgeable guide ensures you learn more about the destination, history, and culture than you might on your own. Companies such as G Adventures and Intrepid, not only provide a guide for the whole of the trip but also have additional more local guides from the communities you visit along the way to make it even more authentic. I found this particularly beneficial in Peru and Bolivia.
- Safety and Support: Navigating a foreign country can feel daunting, but with a group, you have built-in security and assistance if needed.
Many more tour groups also now specialise in women only tours, or certain age group specific groups. Check out Solo Female Travelers Club and JourneyWoman (for women over 50) to see some of what is on offer.
The Downsides of a Group Tour
However, group travel isn’t for everyone. Some potential drawbacks include:
- Limited Flexibility: Group tours follow set schedules, meaning you may not get enough time at places that intrigue you most.
- Less Authenticity: Some tours stick to well-trodden tourist paths rather than allowing for spontaneous, immersive experiences.
- Group Dynamics: You won’t always click with every fellow traveller, and personalities within a group can sometimes impact the overall experience.
- Higher Costs: Many group tours include markups for convenience, making them more expensive than independent travel.
Independent Travel: A Path to Personal Growth
If you prefer more freedom and a deeper sense of personal discovery, independent travel could be the way to go. Here’s why:
- Flexibility: You control your itinerary, making room for spontaneity and authentic encounters.
- Personalised Experiences: You can focus on activities that align with your interests rather than following a set agenda. To discover more on this, CLICK HERE for my worksheet and start to plan your next trip as a more transformative experience.
- Deeper Connection: Travelling solo often leads to more meaningful interactions with locals and fellow travellers.
- Empowerment: Navigating a new place on your own builds confidence and resilience, making travel truly transformative.
Alternative Ways to Travel Independently (Without Going It Alone)
If you love the idea of independent travel but still want a sense of support and community, consider these alternatives:
- Small Group Tours with Free Time: Some companies offer small-group experiences that provide structure but allow personal exploration.
- Local Meetups and Experiences: Websites like Meetup, WithLocals, and Airbnb Experiencesallow you to connect with locals for short, guided activities while maintaining your independence. Also consider free walking tours or (my favourite) food tours, like these in San Sebastián or Singapore.
- Women-Only Travel Groups: Join women-centred travel communities like The Solo Female Traveler Network, Wanderful or JourneyWoman to find companionship on your terms.
- Self-Guided Itineraries: Opt for companies that provide detailed itineraries with accommodation booked, so you have freedom without the hassle of planning.
- Retreats and Immersive Experiences: Travel with a purpose by joining retreats focussed on personal growth, wellness, or skill-building (such as photography or cooking). For more on this, check out last week’s newsletter with loads of ideas for Adult Learning Vacations HERE.
Finding the Right Balance
The best travel experience is the one that aligns with your goals. If structure and companionship sound appealing, a group tour might be ideal. If you long for spontaneity and self-discovery, independent travel could be your best fit. Or find a hybrid approach that gives you the best of both worlds.
Whichever path you choose, travel is about transformation, empowerment, and embracing the adventure—on your own terms.
So, {{ subscriber.first_name }}, do you prefer a group tour, or would you rather plan your own adventures? Hit reply to this email to let me know or connect via your social method of choice (Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, Pinterest, Threads or LinkedIn) to give me all the details.
This week I’m also thrilled to announce that I been included in the first volume of JourneyWoman’s (3rdmention today!) new ebook “Never Too Late: Women 50+ Travellers Making the Rules”, which is now available. This volume features inspiring stories from women over 50 who are breaking stereotypes, travelling with intention and purpose. Created in honour of JourneyWoman’s 30th anniversary, the book features women over 50 from around the world and wisdom and practical advice collected from JourneyWoman readers, including me!
If you’d like to get your own copy, JourneyWoman has created a special discount code that you can use by clicking the links for US/Other or Canada. If you do get your own copy, check out my words of wisdom on page 69!
Finally, did you know that I now have a section on the blog for all the previous newsletters? If you have missed any, don’t panic! You can browse all things travel at your leisure HERE.
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Until next time,
Safe Travels
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Blog – Travelling Independently vs Small Group Tour – Which is best for you?
Video – Group Tour vs Independent Travel
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🚍 For tours and activities, my preferred supplier is Get Your Guide.
🗺️ For multi day or week tours, check out G Adventures. I used them for trips in Costa Rica, Peru, and Galapagos.
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