Finding Your WHERE: A Guide to Choosing Your Transformational Travel Destination
If you’re ready to take that leap but don’t know where to start, this guide is for you. Let’s explore the factors and strategies to help you find your perfect WHERE.
If you’re ready to take that leap but don’t know where to start, this guide is for you. Let’s explore the factors and strategies to help you find your perfect WHERE.
Have you ever felt stuck in life? Like there are more experiences you need to have or places you’ve never been but feel drawn to?
Last week my demons came knocking. It was emotional. My partner, Larry has been suffering from excruciating sciatic (back) pain from long before we met and after trying everything, went in for surgery on Monday.
Did you see the Northern Lights last week? For the first time ever (in my non-scientific assessment), they were clearly visible in the south of the UK where I live.
It has struck me recently that for many of us who live alone, contemplating travelling solo too may not exactly fill us with joy. We ideally like to have someone there with us, at least to share a meal and […]
To state the obvious, the world of travel has changed. It is now even more of a privilege than ever. Navigating the new world of travel is an exercise in research, flexibility and overcoming obstacles. I have now been on […]
For my first post in this new year, I decided to revisit the process of writing a Bucket List. After facing personal tragedy back in 2014, I created my first List and since then it has formed a roadmap for […]
2021 was another strange year for all of us. I started the year alone, frustrated, angry & felt like I had lost myself. However, being forced to come to terms with life after loss and to stand still, gave me […]
What is Iceland famous for? If you have read any of my recent blog posts, you will know that I fell hard for Iceland. Was it the spectacular landscapes? Probably! The amazing waterfalls? Definitely! The interesting wildlife? For sure. The […]
The Land of Fire & Ice has so much adventure to offer visitors that it’s hard to know where to start, especially if you’re limited for time. For me, taking a road trip along the south coast gave the perfect […]

Welcome to my little corner of the internet, for women in midlife who feel the pull to explore — not just the world, but themselves.
I’ve been travelling for over 30 years, through seasons of joy, grief, reinvention and becoming. Travel didn’t just show me new places — it helped me find my way back to myself.
Here I share honest travel stories and reflections on courage, change and second acts.
You don’t need to be brave yet. You’re welcome exactly as you are.
Try: courage, walking, grief, becoming, solo.
Sue Where Why What is a personal, lived-experience space.
I don’t accept guest posts or generic collaborations, and I only share places and stories I genuinely trust.